The main cause of my anger is towards the Dr's that are responsible for my babies death. A part of me want's to let go, but then a bigger part of me wants to rip their heads off (OK so perhaps a little melodramatic). The fact I have never got an apology from said Dr's, yes the hospital admitted fault but I was never told two simple word 'I'm sorry'. Our lives have been DRAMATICALLY affected by these Dr's bad decision. I don't know if I can muster the strength to give forgiveness. I know no matter how much anger I hold it won't bring my baby back, but I feel if I forgive them they are let off and they shouldn't be.
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Another reason for my anger is actions made by people I considered my close friends. I was deeply hurt by actions made by them and while I miss their friendship I'm not sure if I can forgive and forget.
Can you really forgive? Can you just say, hurtful actions towards me won't affect me any more. Or is it a big fat giant con? Have you forgiven someone? Have you been able to move on, get over it? Is forgiveness the key to freedom?
I would love to hear your thoughts.
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"Forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could have been different". Oprah. This is my favourite all time quote. It says it all. I am so sorry for the loss of your baby, I cannot imagine the pain you have gone through. But I can imagine it would be hard to forgive those responsible.
ReplyDeleteIn terms of friendship pain. I have had the most tumultuous two years of my life with a friendship gone really bad. I ended up in counselling because of it. I have had to see this person every single day at our children's school, which hasn't helped. But in time, I learnt to just let it go. I can't necessarily say that I forgave them as such, but I certainly gave up hope that the past could have been different. Sending you hugs.
Thanks for your kind and supportive words. I hope that you have found peace in your life ♥
Deletemy kindest thoughts are with you as you work through this . xx
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